What I found to be true in my own life is that the person God calls us to be with is often the one who brings out the best in us and brings us closer to God. The one who challenges us to be all that God calls us to be, and the saint God made us to be. This was the message of my toast to my beloved sister and her now husband on their wedding day, but it is also my reply to all my single friends, directees, young adults and all those I minister to who ask me, “How do I know if